Are you Soul Mates, In Love, or Just In Lust?

It's Foolish to take Marriage Advice from someone who has never been married, nor can they maintain a spouse relationship with anyone; just living with children trapped and forced to be with them.

Are you Soul Mates, In Love, or Just In Lust? Young men and women. Many people say that their relationship is put together by the Heavenly Father himself. The way to tell if the Heavenly Father put you together with your spouse is; when the relationship storms come, and you survive all the hate from family, friends, and strangers, survive all the death traps set in place to destroy black families, survive all the financial strain, sinful mistakes, and white folks evil interference, then you know that your spouse is Heaven sent. Young women take note: an wicked woman will always hate a woman trying to do right by our Heavenly Father. 2 Esdras 16; 49 - 50

Second note: coming from a man who is currently married with children for 8 years and counting, and not someone giving marriage counseling who has never been married, hates the opposite sex, and not able to maintain a relationship with anyone other than some children held hostage who can’t leave. Separate yourselves from all “friends and family” that are enemies against your spouse, and enemies of the Heavenly Father; they simply were not chosen in the race for Heaven, but you are.

Never trust your enemy, no matter what form your oppressor comes from. Remember, it is white folks (who the Heavenly Father recognizes as Easu) to destroy black families; first the black man. Stay by each other’s side, no matter what storm, trial, or mistake in life that does not call for separation by the Laws and Commandments of our Heavenly Father. White folks will take any mistake made by the black man and try to threaten, humiliate, and persuade with gifts the black woman to sell out for destruction the black man, and then mock the black woman and children later in life for not having a father to protect them, love them, educate them, financially support them, and to be the guide to Heaven which is the ultimate treasure in the race in life; not competing with the Jones.

This is your turn and opportunity to break family curses, broken homes, and evolve your people. Stand by your spouse throughout sickness, health, rich or poor. Till death do you part, and then you’ll come back to be together again, if you’re blessed.

Genesis 2; 21 - 25 - Woman Comes from Man and Both Leaves Parents to become one flesh with spouse

Deuteronomy 7; 1 – 4 - You or Your Children Don’t Marry Enemy or Oppressor

Deuteronomy 21; 10-14 - Women Captive

Deuteronomy 21; 15 – 17 - Moses Tells us how to Handle Children with 2 Wives

Deuteronomy 24; 1 – 4 - Abomination with Yahweh to Take Wife Back after Divorce

1 Kings 11; 1 - 6 - King Soloman’s wives from Different Nations Turned him from Serving Yahweh

Ecclesiastes 9; 9 - Live Joyfully with your Wife all the Days of Vain Life

Hosheyah/Hosea Chapters 1, 2, 3, and 4 - Yahweh Considers Man’s Relationship with him as Marriage the Same way Man is Bound to Woman in Marriage

Sirach 9; 1 - 9 - Don’t Envy your Wife, Teach her Evil Lessons, or give time to Hoes

Sirach 26; 1 – 3 - Yahweh Blesses Men who Fear the Lord with a Virtuous Wife

Sirach 26; 14 - 16 - A Silent Loving Woman is a Gift of Yahweh

Sirach 36; 24 – 26 Man with Virtuous Wife has a Good Possession and Pillar of Rest More Trusted than Man Wondering with No Wife

Mattithyah/ Matthew 5; 31 – 32 - No Lawful Reason for Divorce other than Adultery

Mattithyah/ Matthew 19; 4 – 9 - Yahweh made Man and Woman, to Leave Father and Mother, to become One Flesh of Each Other

1 Corinthians 7; 12 - 14 - Children counted as unclean separated with unclean spouse

1 Corinthians 7; 15 - departing from unbelieving spouse

Ephesians 5; 21 – 33 - Wives Submit to Husband as Husband is Head of Wife and Husbands Love your Wife as you Love your Own Body

1 Timothy 2; 9 – 15 - Women Shall Learn in Silence, not Teaching or Having Authority Over Man, Dressed in Modest Apparel

1 Peter 3; 1 - 6 - Women be Quiet in Spirit, Modest in Dress Code, and Submissive to Husband who you Shall call your Lord

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